Still Playing School: The After School Attitude: Why Is My Child Acting Out at Home?

Whilst this is not ground breaking, it has some good thoughts and ideas about managing the transition from school to home, especially focused on the first days and weeks. I think we can apply some of the ideas to our bigger ones too…
Tim

Reasons why kids act out at home during the back to school transition (and tips about what you can do to help)

Source: Still Playing School: The After School Attitude: Why Is My Child Acting Out at Home?

SJ Club Autumn Newsletter 2015

Welcome to a new year with Super Jesus Club! We are kicking off this year with some parables from Jesus under the theme of ‘Love Stories’. We’ve not covered these for many years although they are mostly pretty familiar ones. We’ll be trying to help our children grow the skills to unlock the hidden meaning that Jesus wove into these stories as well as sharing some of what we have discovered. For more about our general approach to our ministry with children head on over to the website www.standrewskids.co.uk

The rest of the programme is still in the planning except that at Christmas, we will be looking at Christmas! On that note, we are always looking for people to help create and plan the Nativity, which needs a new and novel idea every year! Do let one of us know if you would like to be involved. I’ll be sending out the rotas next week.

Groups
About half of the children change groups each year. Hopefully you know whether your child is moving up a group but it’s not a big thing and we will make sure they know which they are in. We are swapping JIGSAW and Acorns around so JIGSAW will be using the small room downstairs along with the garden and kitchen. The Acorns children will, initially, spend less time in the All Together and will use the bigger space to have more freedom of choice in activities.

The bit in Church is something that a number of people have been thinking about recently. This is a time for ‘intergenerational church’ to happen i.e. where we serve each other across the ages and worship God together. A few years ago we created the soft area at the front of church to give the youngest children a space where they could be free to move about a bit and to feel more at home in the church. As the children have grown up, they have so enjoyed being in this space that it is now overcrowded and for some of the older children, it is now making it harder for them to engage with what is going on. Having talked with some parents about this and with the staff team, I would like to ask that we keep this space for the under fives as much as is possible. My suggestion is that older children sit just a little further back in the front of the Nave (incentive to get there early!) and try to follow the service using the (many) papers that we use (bring on the screens!). My experience of doing this with Ben (and others in his year too) is that they have enjoyed using the song sheets/books/service cards etc and then later on we have been able to leave them to sit by the pillars and be more independant. I hope that this make sense to you and do talk to me about it if you want to.

Let’s Play Spirituality Weekend: http://www.cliffcollege.ac.uk/students/shortcourses/lupsw/
Some of the team are going on this weekend but I think will be really useful for anyone bringing up children to know and love Jesus so have a look and think about coming along!

Finally, back to this Sunday which is the last 10.30am service. We have our first SJ Club and then at 12pm it’s the church meeting. At this point, please collect any Seedlings (créche children) but all the other under 11’s can stay for some SJ Club extra!
Keep checking the website for updates, musings, information and events. Looking forward to a great term walking in faith with our children and knowing Jesus more each day.

Tim

Holiday Club 2015 – It’s time to sign up!

In response to difficulties we had in 2014, we are making some big changes to the way we prepare for Holiday Club this year. Below is a letter to you outlining these changes. Please treat yourself to a cup of tea or coffee, read through the letter and then get in touch with your response or questions etc. Many thanks, Tim

Council of Churches Holiday Club

27-31 July 2015

Dear current, old, new or interested team member,

Thank you for your interest in Holiday Club, and for those who have served on team before, thank you for all that you have given already to the lives of the children in our villages. Holiday Club is a wonderful week where around 200 children come together along with a junior team of around 25 and adult team of about 50 and no one goes away untouched in some way by Jesus!

During the week we are privileged, commissioned and given the opportunity to share the love of God in Jesus with the children and to meet with Him ourselves as we sing, hear stories and listen to the children. It truly is a blessing to be involved in as an adult and one which will challenge and change you. It is probably the churches biggest opportunity to share the good news of Jesus with people in our villages as we also meet with the parents and family members of the children in our groups.

Over the years, we have come to accept that Holiday Club will just happen, and it always does. However, last year we encountered our biggest problems for some time as we struggled to find enough people to lead the small groups of children. In the end, we began holiday club 5 people short and whilst some people stepped up into roles and grew in their faith as a result, some groups did not have the leading that we would like. The Core Team has now made a commitment to ensure that every small group has a ‘committed, capable, Christian leader’ and a leader who has a DBS certificate. These qualities can be shared between the 2 or 3 leaders that each group has but they must all be in place well before Holiday begins.

Another big problem last year was that some leaders signed up very late and so were not able to prepare well enough or receive the training that we lay on. To solve this, we are asking that all team members sign up by April 12, 2015. If we don’t have enough leaders by then we will cancel Holiday Club or reduce the number of children we can take. We will then put on 2 training evenings on 25 June and 2 July from 7.30-9pm, with pizza from 6.45pm (pizza not compulsory but good for getting to know each other!). Some of the time during these evenings will be given over for group leaders to work together on the material that will be used with the children to ensure that everyone is well prepared. This will also help the junior leaders and adult leaders to get to know each other and give a chance for us to share ideas with each other.

I trust that you can understand why we are making these changes and ask that you will prayerfully consider being involved in Holiday Club this year. For those of you that work, would you consider taking a weeks holiday (as you might to do a mission abroad or help on a camp) to serve with us? I’ve attached the adult and under 16’s Application forms. (use link below)

If you have any questions, please do not hesitate to ask. And finally, to get yourself into the mood for this years Holiday Club theme: start dreaming of summer holidays, beaches and get singing, ‘Everybody’s gone surfing, surfing USA’!

Blessings,

Tim & the Core Team: Eileen, Rebecca, Gill, Joe, Kate, Sam

www.histonholidayclub.org.uk

…more Advent ideas for you and your family

This is a book for families or small groups with a godly play style and colourful, simple, creative activities to do in your home. It is based on the Lectionary readings, giving you something to do each day…

http://www.barnabasforchildren.org.uk/pages/site.asp?action=product&idisbn.exact=9781841016962Z

 

9781841016962Z

Make Advent Meaningful and Special this year + Nativity prep

Advent is a very special time in the Christian year. It is, in fact, the start of the Christian year and gives us a wonderful opportunity to carve out some special time with our children and families and to get the candles out! It is a time to get ready, a time to prepare our hearts and lives to receive the new born baby king, Jesus Christ.

In the past, we have held special events at Church such as the Advent Light Party or SJ Club Advent Party. This year, we having an SJ Club Special on Advent Sunday during the normal SJ Club time. This is because we want to give your Advent a kick start and send the children home with something that will be the hook on which you hang all your Advent activities. But before we get to that, most children love Advent Calendars and these can be a great way to get ready for Jesus and keep Christmas focused on him. So we have bought a job lot of ‘The Real Advent Calendar’ which is a fun way to share the Christmas story. Behind the first giant window there is a 32-page Christmas story/Advent booklet with a page for every day of December. Then, behind each of the 25 windows there is a Fairtrade chocolate star and a few words from the Christmas story. As well as celebrating the true meaning of Christmas, the calendar makes a charity donation to Funzi & Bodo Trust from every sale. These are already in the Stable Rooms, cost £4 and you can put the money into the box of calendars.

Real Advent CalendarLove Life Live Advent

 

So on Advent Sunday the children will be making an Advent Wreath, Calendar or Jesse Tree to use each day throughout Advent and we can all start this off on Sunday tea time. Alongside your wreath, calendar or Jesse Tree we will also be giving every child a ‘Love Life, Live Advent’ booklet. If you have used the ‘Love Life, Live Lent’ booklet you will be familiar with the format of a small, achievable action or thought for each day.

We hope that some or all of these will help your children and you to have a wonderful Advent time that will help you all to get ready to meet Jesus on Christmas day and, of course, each day before.

We will also be beginning our preparation for the Christmas Nativity by recording the children’s voices retelling the story. Their pieces will then be edited together to form the narration of the story to which the children will perform in a loosely rehearsed style on December 14. SJ Club on December 7 will include the second rehearsal and then we will need to arrive early on Dec 14 to get into costumes and be prepared. We would appreciate your help in this by getting the children to the Stable Rooms by 10am on December 14. Thank you!